When I was first traipsing around the country doing book tours for He’s Just Not That Into You, I would have women and men tell me about relationships they were in with people they described as “emotionally unavailable.” It was a very hot term at the time and all the talk shows were using it.…
Lately I’ve spent a lot of time looking at the feeds of gurus, coaches, leaders, teachers, philosophers, and ultra thinkers and it has prompted me to wonder what it is that I am all about. Especially as a life coach. My first reaction to almost anyone’s teaching is “No thank you.” I reject almost anything…
I know it sounds crazy. I’m certainly not the first person to recommend this and I won’t be the last, but try wanting nothing from your relationship. “Wait, what?” says you. I know, but hear me out. Some people refer to this as detaching with love but that’s not what I mean either. What I…
Start meditating. Close your eyes take four deep breaths. There you are done. You meditated. Do it again tomorrow.
When I was younger never really paid much attention to the phrase “Show some self respect.” My gut response was always “I do respect myself” without really taking into account what those words actually meant, or why the person, usually and adult, was saying it to me.
Then one day I woke up and I had lost everything. Everything. Family, money, work, friends, fans, you name it, I lost it
It’s an old rule of mine from the old days when people had to call you to get ahold of you but it still holds true today. You deserve a f**cking phone call.